Shibari meets Tantra - Tongeren
a day of rope and tantric massage
There is a place in you that wants to stop doing. That wants to be held without questions, and simply receive.
On Saturday 6 March, together with Philippe Bonny, I guide a full day in Tongeren in which shibari and tantric massage come together. The rope brings you into surrender. The massage touches what waits underneath.
For many people surrender first feels like losing something. In my workshops I see again and again how something opens up at that very moment: more calm, more safety and a deeper presence with yourself and with the other. Knot by knot and touch by touch you let go of tension and control, and of the stories that keep your body closed.
What you learn that day
- The basics of shibari, with ties in which your body can rest.
- Tantric massage as a way into presence and pleasure.
- Leading and following, and consciously switching roles.
- Making room for stillness, emotion and healing touch.
- Letting surrender land, in your body and in your heart.
We work trauma sensitively. Everything alive in you is welcome: your desire, your resistance, your edge, your yes and your no. You decide how far you go, and you may stop at any moment without having to explain why.
Who it is for
You do not need any experience. You come on your own, with your partner or simply out of curiosity. On the spot you find a partner through exercises in which you get to know each other first.
Practical
- When. Saturday 6 March 2027, from 13:00 to 23:00.
- Where. Tongeren. You receive the address after registering.
- Food. In the evening we eat together. Bring a dish to share.
- Bring. A sarong, a towel, massage oil (there is some available) and comfortable clothing. Rope is provided, and you are welcome to bring your own.
The places are limited. Do you feel this day is for you? Philippe and I look forward to meeting you.