How the day runs
13:00 to 18:00, the day programme. Arriving, a short circle, and the agreements about consent and safety. After that we work with the rope: patterns that carry the body, pace, tension, and the art of working calmly. We look at what holds surrender back in you and what softens it. We breathe, we slow down, and we swap roles so that you come to know both sides. We close with room for silence and aftercare.
18:00, potluck. We eat together. Bring a dish to share.
19:30 to 22:00, the rope temple. A space where you may play with each other, with the rope you held during the day. I stay present and hold the space.
Who it is for
For anyone who has met shibari or tantra before and wants to go further. You do not have to be advanced.
- Solos are welcome. I do not assign partners, and the warm-up lets you sense each other first.
- Coming from the free introduction or from the classes? This is a good next step. During the day the clothes stay on, just like there.
- From 25 years old. I guide this day in Dutch.
Intensiteit:
🌶️ level 1 overdag, 🌶️🌶️ level 2 in de temple
I work with a chilli system that shows what the intensity may be for your nervous system, so that you know beforehand what you are stepping into.
Level 1, the connection. Clothes stay on, and we reach out. A soft touch, eye contact. That is how the whole day programme runs.
Level 2, the opening. Sensuality is given room and clothing can come off, always your choice. That is how the rope temple runs.
Safety and consent
The same agreements as in my classes and workshops. We set out consent explicitly at the start, you always ask before you touch or tie someone, and you may stop at any moment without having to explain yourself.
I keep an eye on nerves and pressure, and I step in when a tie does not sit safely. There is no working towards pain. Read how I work with safety and consent.
Practical
- When. Saturday 21 November 2026 or Saturday 19 December 2026, each time 13:00 to 22:30.
- Where. Nukerke, Maarkedal. You receive the address after booking.
- Booking. Through Hipsy, with the link next to the date in the agenda.
- Bring. A dish for the potluck, and clothing you move easily in.
- Rope. Rope is there, bringing your own is welcome.
What I ask of you
You take responsibility for your own process. You know your boundaries and you say them. You respect the boundaries of the others, also when they surprise you. You are sober. Everything shared here stays here.